Consistency is key. If you’re a blogger or know anything about blogging you know this is what everyone preaches when speaking of success. While this is 100% true, I’ve learned that not enough people talk about being “absent”. I love blogging because it gives me an opportunity to share my story and connect with so many other like-minded women! But as an introvert, that constant pouring is absolutely draining. It’s draining to the point I easily get burned out and I never reach my true goal of consistency. I’ve been blogging every day this month but I’m slowly finding myself reaching that point of exhaustion. Especially when it comes to Instagram. So this past weekend, I deleted social media off of my phone in order to take a social media detox. More importantly, I listened to my body and decided to not feel guilty for taking a social media detox!
While I was on a social media detox this past weekend 3 big things happened!
I was extremely productive
As a stay at home mom, I always joke with Shawn and tell him it’s almost impossible for me to write, look decent, keep the house clean and find time to myself all in a given day while running behind a 2-year-old. Most days, I only choose about 2 of these things to focus on and push the others for the next day. On day 1 of my social media detox, I managed to knock out 3 of these things! I couldn’t believe it honestly! By the end of the day, I looked up and felt absolutely amazing. I was super proud of myself and my mental cup was filled for the first time in weeks!
What have you pushed to the side because you don’t have the time? Is there a book you’ve dying to read? Or a junk closet you’ve been meaning to tackle? It sounds so simple to put your phone down and prioritize life but being realistic it doesn’t always happen. By intentionally detoxing from social media on a day you plan on spending at home, you’re clearing your schedule from a major distraction!
The time I spent with family was quality time
Once Raelynn is down for the night, Shawn and I commit to spending at least an hour or two together. But all too often, I’m guilty of cutting into our time by wrapping up a Pinterest Pinn or replying to Instagram DMs. But with no Instagram to cut into our time “us” time this past weekend, I was able to give him my undivided attention. For the first time in weeks, I felt like I was in tune with his day and I was able to sit back appreciate him more!
Although quality time isn’t our #1 love language, it’s still super important to us. Now more than ever since we have a little one to split our time with as well. After this detox, I’m strongly considering banning my phone and laptop from our bedroom after Raelynn goes to sleep.
I felt more prepared for the next week
I love blogging. In the past year, I feel like I’ve been stepping more into my purpose and using my voice in ways I could’ve never imagined. So although I unplugged from social media, my mind still reverted to blog post and photo ideas. New ideas and insight dropped into my mind making my return much more exciting!
Whether you’re a blogger or just a tired mom, I couldn’t stress enough making sure you’re taking time to your self. For some, its not social media but there are triggers somewhere making you absolutely exhausted! Pay attention to those triggers and take breaks when needed.
For me, a social media detox is just what I needed! My creative juices are flowing but most importantly my heart is full and I’m ready to pour from a full cup!
XO
Michelle
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